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No one should have to be sick and alone

How do you say goodbye to someone you love when you know it will be the last time you ever see them?

Next month I will travel to Malaysia with my partner to visit his grandmother who has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.

She has been given three months to live and the 4000km distance means this will most likely be the last trip we make while she is still alive.

Getting there and spending time with her will be easy, but saying goodbye will be the hardest thing we ever do.

It's a sad truth but at some stage in our lives we will all be touched by cancer in some way.

Whether we experience it ourselves or see a loved one suffer with the disease it's never an easy task.

And being so far away from someone you love can make it even harder, especially when they're so sick.

It doesn't matter if they live overseas, interstate or on the other side of Sydney, you want to be as close as possible to look after them and spend time with them when they need you most.

That's why we are so lucky to have state of the art cancer treatment centres in Macarthur. The Macarthur Cancer Therapy Centre at Campbelltown Hospital, the Palliative Care Unit at Camden Hospital and the Pediatric Ambulatory Care Service give our cancer patients the best treatment available close to home.

This weekend I will walk around Campbelltown Athletics Stadium in Leumeah to raise money for these facilities at the 24-Hour Fight Against Cancer Macarthur.

It's not too late to sign up or donate money and everything raised stays right here in our area.

I don't think we realise how lucky we are to have these treatment facilities so close to home until we find ourselves travelling miles away to be near a sick loved one.

I hope everyone in Wollondilly who is free this weekend will drop into the athletics stadium to walk a lap, donate money and support this cause.

Because nobody should ever have to fight cancer far from home and nobody should have to leave a loved one behind when they say goodbye for the last time.

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I have Two Dad's One that is ablock from me and my my birth father that is 1200 miles from me that is only 74 and is sick and very alone i am his only child it saddends me so that I am not even his power of attorney becase of a cousin that is out there that does not even goes to see him does that I do call him as much as I can but not the same he has renal failure diebetes and many other things life is so very sad he worked so hard his whole life to die alone and with nothing is so wrong...Hopfully I can change things somehow he is in a nursing center but some are not what they should be..... So if you have loved ones no mater how hard it is please for thier sake go visit them it does them good cause being alone is worse then being sick...... Everyone knows hugs help Debra G Now go Hug a Loved one !!!!!!!!!!
Posted by Debbie, 23/11/2009 5:41:45 AM
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Michelle Fenech writes with a focus on Wollondilly Shire. Her subject matter ranges from the personal - to matters of local, state and national importance.

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